How does one succeed in life?
Last Updated: 19.06.2025 05:31
First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.
Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.
The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.
Has a psychic ever made a crazy prediction that turned out to be true?
Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.
Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.
Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.
Are there any guys, crossdressers, or transgender girls here who wear tampons?
Ask yourself:
Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.
Does not procrastinate.
Do guys prefer big boobs or small boobs? Why?
The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.
Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.
Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.
What do you wear when you are alone at home?
Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.
How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?
Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).
Do leftists understand why young men are becoming more right-wing?
An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):
Making more friends is a goal.
How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?
Is there a possibility that we are living in a simulation and that there is a concept of rebirth?
Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).
Do not set goals—set systems.
Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.
Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.
I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?
Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.
Why does the God of the Bible condemn homosexual acts?
Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.
Opens a business and makes WiFi money.
Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.
What does it mean when someone says "I'm feeling frisky"?
Big dreamer but only in his mind.
Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.
“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.
However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:
Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.
Living to your full potential is a goal.
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Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.
Saving $10,000 is a goal.
PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.
If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.
What I need from you?
Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.
Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.
Procrastinates a lot.
Hangs out with loser friends.
Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.
Losing 20kg is a goal.
In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.
Avoids sugar and is very fit.
That's it for today.
Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.